Saturday, February 16, 2008

Dating Profiles

If you were to read though most of the dating profiles online, you would probably get the idea that everyone out there is perfect in body, face, and mind. We all know this is not true, but many of the people who start online dating often start out representing themselves as something that they are not. They soon learn though, that attracting someone by being less than honest never works. Once they see the real you, you have already deceived them. If people just had more confidence in who they really are, they wouldn’t have this problem.

Dating profiles often make it very easy to lie, though it’s not really the fault of the sites that host them. They can’t interview every person who wants to put a profile on their site, and there is no way they can check everyone out. That means if you are going through dating profiles on a dating site that you really have to keep your sense of intuition sharp, and you have to know when you see something that is too good to be true. The perfect person does not exist, though many try to make out like that is exactly what they are.

In reality, the more honest you are on your dating profiles, the quicker you are going to meet someone who is compatible with you. You can put up fake profiles if you want to, but it is not going to get you anywhere. Someone has to be able to know the true you, or at least as much as you can put in dating profiles. They have to have a good sense of who you are before they contact you so that neither of you end up disappointed.

Be honest when filling out your dating profiles and look for those who also seem to be very honest about who they are and what they look like. You may think you are a boring person, but I bet you that you are not. It’s hard to judge ourselves fairly, and it is sometimes hard to fill out dating profiles about ourselves when we sometimes don’t know what to say. If you have that problem, have a good friend who really knows you help you fill it out. They may see the wonderful qualities about you that you just can’t see in yourself. You may be surprised about how great you really are in the eyes of those who know you.