No matter how you try to spin it speed dating will always have a certain amount of desperation linked to it for both men and women.
Does that mean you should do your best to avoid speed dating events if you are a single man?
Well, that really depends on what other options you have because even though speed dating might appear to make you look desperate it is better than a whole lot of other options you might have when it comes to meeting and attracting women. In a perfect world you already have enough confidence in yourself to approach women that you meet in your every day activities; but for many of you that simply isn't the case.
Hopefully, now you have already begun to take the steps necessary to build up your confidence and inner game so that in the future you can approach women anywhere. Yet, in the meantime speed dating is a good way to meet and actually talk with women.
Just be careful because there are plenty of "evil women" that are going to speed dating events as well. While speed dating events do attract plenty of desperate men and women, the truth of the matter is it also attracts people who have enough confidence in themselves to go despite the obvious desperation of the whole thing.
The main difference being those who are desperate tend to show up all the time in search of "hope", whereas those who are relatively confident show up on a spur of the moment or to help out a hopeless friend rather than all the time.
In the end, as a man you must consider doing whatever is necessary to get what you want and if a speed dating event is your best option for a night, then a speed dating event is where you must go; until you can create some better options in your life.
